Balinese Culture & Etiquette for Expats and Families (2025)

Q: "What are some cultural tips I should know while living or traveling in Bali?"

Great question - and honestly, it's one of the most important things you can ask. Balinese culture is full of beauty, tradition, and deep respect. Taking a little time to understand the local customs goes a long way - and keeps things good with your neighbors, too. Here's a friendly breakdown of what to keep in mind:

Visiting Temples

What should I wear at temples?

Always dress modestly. That means shoulders covered and a sarong tied around your waist - men and women both. It's a sign of respect. And while no one might say anything to your face (the Balinese avoid confrontation), showing too much skin - like wearing a bikini or see-through clothing at a temple - is considered really disrespectful.

Tip: You can rent or borrow sarongs at most temple entrances if you forget!

Can I go to a temple during my period?

According to tradition, women who are menstruating are not allowed to enter temples. It's based on spiritual beliefs, and while it might feel strict, it's important to respect it while you're here.

Everyday Etiquette

Any gestures I should avoid?

Yes! Here are a few common ones:

  • Don't point with your feet - feet are considered the lowest, dirtiest part of the body.
  • Never touch someone's head - even a child's. The head is seen as sacred.
  • Waving someone over? Do it with your palm down and fingers pointing toward the ground. Waving with your palm up is considered rude.

Can I give things with either hand?

Stick to your right hand or both hands together. Handing someone something with your left hand is seen as impolite.

What about shoes?

Always remove your shoes before entering someone's home. It's a sign of respect and cleanliness. If you're going to a temple, wear sandals or flip-flops - easy on, easy off.

Eating & Offerings

Why are there tiny offerings everywhere?

Those little palm-leaf baskets (called canang sari) are daily offerings to show gratitude and keep balance with the spirit world. Don't step on them - especially if they're freshly placed with burning incense.

Do locals do anything special before eating?

Yes, many Balinese families make a small offering from their meal before eating - a way to say thanks to nature and the gods. It's beautiful, and you might see it in more traditional homes or warungs.

Communicating with Respect

How should I greet people?

If you're speaking to someone older, add "Bapak" for men and "Ibu" for women before their name. It's a simple way to show respect.

Can I take pictures of people and ceremonies?

Ask first - especially in villages or during religious events. Most people are kind and open, but asking shows you care.

Rules to Know

Is it okay to use drugs or party freely in Bali? Bali is laid-back, but Indonesia's drug laws are incredibly strict. Even small amounts can land you in serious legal trouble - we're talking heavy fines, long prison time, or worse. Alcohol is legal, though, and enjoyed in moderation.

Can I fly my drone?

Drone use is regulated. If you're near temples, ceremonies, or certain areas, you'll need a permit. Always fly respectfully and check the rules.

Can I bargain at markets?

Totally — bargaining is part of the experience at local markets. Just keep it friendly and respectful. Smile, and don't push too hard. It's meant to be playful.

What about plastic use?

Bali has banned single-use plastics like plastic bags, straws, and Styrofoam. Bring your own reusable tote and water bottle - you'll fit right in.

Why can't I flush toilet paper?

The plumbing here isn't built for it. Always toss TP in the bin next to the toilet. It's totally normal.

Special Days

What is Nyepi, and do I need to prepare?

Yes - Nyepi is Bali's Day of Silence, and it's unlike anything else. The island literally shuts down: no lights, no noise, no leaving your home or hotel (even the airport closes). It's a sacred day for reflection, and everyone respects it — including tourists.

Tip: Stock up on snacks and meals the day before. Some internet providers even cut off WiFi, so download what you need ahead of time. It's a unique chance to really unplug.

Respect is at the heart of everything here. If you're ever unsure, just ask - the Balinese are kind and happy to help if you show genuine interest. It's all about good vibes, shared space, and treating each other (and the island) with care.